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just wanted to drop you a line of thanks - I have seen the movie over
10 times - it has deeply moved me....so much so that I made it the
topic for a speech I gave to over 100 people on March 19-04 at the
Kiwanis Club of Ottawa and Circle K (university kiwanis clubs). It
has inspired me to set up a scholarship at the University of Ottawa
- in honour of our parents (my wife and myself) - and it is based
upon the pay it forward concept...in the hopes that the students will
some day pay it forward.....
The results of the speech was a standing ovation
(very rare from our club) which still sends shivers down my spine
and chokes me up when I think of it...My Dream of sending the message
- has become a goal - which has now partially reached reality I
am blessed to be relatively successful in life and now - I am pleased
to PAY IT FORWARD>>>> I continually purchase copies
of the movie and hand it out to people to view and keep - hoping
it will change their lives. I will send you a copy of my speech
when I transcribe it to a format which can be emailed....... [text
of speech follows this letter]
I did not realize the foundation or website existed,
as I wrote my speech from the heart using the movie as my inspiration
.....one of my fellow members did a search on google and told me
about it just before my speech...that is why I am sending you this
email now...
thank you for giving me the drive and desire -to
change the world..I believe this movie should be in every school
in Canada - that is my next goal...so I may need your help in getting
copies to the schools......
It is now time for me to inspire thousands more....talk
to you again soon.
bill gosewitz ottawa, ontario canada
More information at: www.ottawakiwanis.org
PAY IT FORWARD YOU NEVER KNOW HOW YOUR ACTIONS
CAN CHANGE THE WORLD.
..A movie that I believe .changed my life...and
can change yours.
(Haley Joel Osment/ Helen Hunt/ Kevin Spacey/ Jon
Bon Jovi and Angie Dickinson)
A book by Catherine Ryan Hyde
The story of a teacher who challenged his students
to come up with ideas to change the world..
To get extra marks for class.
One such student - something like myself - a bit
of a dreamer - decide if you help someone - expect nothing in return
except that they help 3 other people - then if each of those 3 help
another 3- the
Number of acts of kindness would grow exponentially
- These acts of kindness would spread throughout the world and change
it for the better..Call it Generosity Between Strangers.
What do you think of the idea ????
WEIRD - CRAZY - HARD - OVERLY UTOPIAN ?????
HOW ABOUT - POSSIBLE ?.....
When I was a young lad - I saw my grandfather work
12-18 hours per day to survive as a tailor/furrier
I saw my father work 12-15 hours per day in a dark
room as a photographer to ensure we had enough money and food.
I was always told "GET A GOOD EDUCATION -
YOU'LL GET A GOOD JOB"
"YOU CAN
DO ANYTHING YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO DO."(THE CONCEPT OF - IF YOU
BELIEVE YOU CAN ACHIEVE -was constantly told to me by my grandfather).
During University
I worked
7-11 at revenue
Canada (equivalent to IRS in the USA)
Midnight -
8 am at computel
And went to
school during the day in order to pay for my schooling - because
I was too proud to ask my father for the money he worked so hard
to earn...
My work ethic
was formed - If I worked hard - I could do almost anything..
I had
Dreams - which
I turned into goals - many of which have become reality.
'THE REALM
OF POSSIBILITY EXISTS IN YOUR MIND....'
How many people
here dream of winning the lottery - put up your hands ?
How many people
BELIEVE they will win the lottery - keep your hand up..there are
a few of you..
How many people
KNOW FOR A FACT they will win the lottery ?..I'm the only one with
my hand up..why?.because I have set a clause in my will which sets
funds aside to ensure my lottery numbers are funded in perpetuity
until they win.then the money will go to an education fund to help
students who need it. My dream - became a goal - and it will become
reality (Maybe not in my lifetime.but it will happen - I am guaranteed
to win the lottery..)
Lets talk a
bit about - DREAMS _ GOALS _ REALITY
I'd like to
briefly focus on these 3 issues.
Especially
for the young people here today -
You will have
dreams.
Some people
will say "You are a dreamer - It cannot happen"
I say NEVER
GIVE UP your dreams.
There are no
unrealistic dreams or goals - ..only unrealistic time frames.
Just like my
lottery plan - it may not happen in the timeframe I would like..but
it will happen.
How many people
here have written a list of goals ?- put up your hand.
There is a
substantial number of you - that is probably why most of you are
very successful.
You must WRITE
down your goals
WRITE DOWN
YOUR DREAMS - IF YOU DON'T WRITE THEM .YOU WONT ACHIEVE MOST OF
THEM.
I CANT TELL
YOU WHY IT WORKS...BUT IT DOES.
AS Sir Winston
Churchill said - NEVER, NEVER NEVER GIVE UP..
SPEAKING OF
CHURCHILL
Did you know
- a poor Scottish farmer named Fleming -saved a lad from a bog.
Had he not
come along the lad would have died a slow horrible death.
The next day
a fancy carriage pulls up to the humble abode - the nobleman tries
to offer the farmer money
For saving
his son's life - the farmer refuses.
So the nobleman
spying the farmer's son - says I will provide your son with the
same education as my son - no doubt he will grow to be a man of
whom we will both be proud.farmer flemings son graduated from
St mary's medical
school in London and went on to become known as Sir Alexander Fleming
- the discover of Penicillin.
Years later
then nobleman's son was stricken with Pneumonia - what saved his
life ?..PENICILLIN
The name of
the nobleman - LORD RANDOLPH CHURCHILL
His son - SIR
WINSTON CHURCHILL.
A random act
of kindness definitely changed the world -
where would
we be without Penicillin or Churchill ?
HOW ABOUT ANOTHER
EXAMPLE
Two Marines
in Iwo Jima - LEE and BOB
Lee was shot
in the butt -won a navy cross for bravery.
The only reason
he survived ? - was his sergeant saved his life with what - Lee
called the greatest act of bravery he ever saw -
"the dumb
bastard actually stood up to direct fire towards himself in order
to allow his men to escape. (He apparently did it on more than one
occasion)
When they dragged
Lee to safety - Bob said - Where did they get you LEE ?
Lee replied
- "if you get home before me - tell mom to sell the outhouse"
The Sergeants
name - Bob Keeshan (we knew him as Captain Kangaroo)
Lee - was Lee
Marvin
A random act
of Bravery and kindness - changed the world for the better - but
it goes deeper than that..
Bob's lifelong
friend Fred was a decorated Vietnam navy seal - who was inspired
by Bob. Fred always wore a sweater when he was on TV - to cover
the tatoos on his arms.Fred's name Fred Rodgers (Mr Rodgers) - another
individual who inspired generations of young people...but it goes
deeper than that.Fred - gave a Puppeteer his start in TV - ERNIE
.ERNIE had Casey and Finnigan..ERNIE was ERNIE COOMBS - Mr Dressup
...
Had Bob been
killed on that field of duty - we may never had had generations
of children learn from
Captain Kangaroo
- Mr Rodgers - Mr. Dressup..
YOU NEVER KNOW
HOW YOUR ACTIONS CAN CHANGE THE WORLD.
Let me give
you one more example - closer to Home
10 years ago
the Kiwanis Club of Ottawa - founded the CPR Training program in
local schools - WHICH EVENTUALLY SPREAD ACROSS CANADA...
A few weeks
ago we were introduced to a young individual - whose life was saved
because his teacher had
Taken the CPR
Program - Paramedics said " if it were not for the teachers
actions - they would have been dealing with a corpse - .. His mother
said our program served to give her son back to her..."
Will he become
Prime Minister - Find a Cure for Cancer - or Save the World.
Who knows -
but the dream of putting CPR dummies in schools - lead to a goal
- which lead to reality.
Those actions
changed the world in at least one case we know of...how many have
we not heard of ????
I BELIEVE THE
QUESTION WE SHOULD ALL BE ASKING OURSELVES - IS
WHY ARE WE
HERE ?
BOTH ON THIS
EARTH AND HERE PHYSICALLY AT THE CHATEAU LAURIER - NOW
WHY HAVE KIWANIANS
MET HERE FOR THE PAST 85+ YEARS ?
FELLOWSHIP
?
GIVING BACK
TO THE COMMUNITY ?
TO LEAVE A
LEGACY FOR THE FUTURE ?
TO CHANGE THE
WORLD FOR THE BETTER ?
I AM REMINDED
OF A QUOTE BY GEORGE BERNARD SHAW
' YOU SEE THINGS
AND YOU SAY WHY ?..BUT I DREAM THINGS THAT NEVER WERE AND I SAY
WHY NOT ?..'
KIWANIS MOTTO
IS SERVING THE CHILDREN OF THE WORLD - BUT REALLY WE SERVE THE CHILDREN
OF OUR COMMUNITY AND INDIRECTLY THE CHILDREN OF THE WORLD BY VIRTUE
OF THE NUMBER OF CLUBS AROUND THE WORLD.
WE ALL HAVE
THE POTENTIAL TO CHANGE THE WORLD
BUT FIRST WE
MUST DARE TO DREAM.
DARE TO SET
GOALS.....DARE TO ACCOMPLISH THEM !
HOW MANY OF
US CAN DONATE - TIME / MONEY / EFFORT - TO HELP OTHERS ?
HOW MANY OF
US CAN BAND TOGETHER AS A GROUP - TO PROVIDE FUNDS FOR A COMMON
CAUSE - TO HELP THE CHILDREN OF OUR COMMUNITY - IE A GROUP OF 10-20
PUTTING TOGETHER A SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM OR SOME OTHER WORTHWHILE
CAUSE ?
PERHAPS OUR
LEGACY COMMITTEE ..
WE ARE ALREADY
CHANGING THE WORLD -THROUGH OUR VARIOUS PROGRAMS
READ A THON
(INSPIRING CHILDREN TO READ BOOKS TO RAISE FUNDS FOR THEIR LIBRARIES)
READING IS
FUNDAMENTAL (SPENDING TIME - READING TO YOUNG CHILREN)
SHAKEN BABY
VIDEOS
SUCCESS BY
6 PROGRAMS
AIR CADETS
/ GOVERNOR GENERALS FOOTGUARDS
CIRCLE K CLUBS
(UNIVERSITY -KIWANIS CLUBS)
KEY CLUBS (HIGH
SCHOOL - KIWANIS CLUBS)
BUT WE CAN
AND MUST DO MORE.....
I RECALL THAT
READING ½ HOUR PER DAY FOR 2 YEARS CAN MAKE YOU AN EXPERT
IN YOUR FIELD - BUT YOU MUST FIRST LEARN TO READ - AND WE MUST ENSURE
ALL CHILDREN HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO LEARN...
½ HOUR
OF EXTRA WORK PER DAY = SUCCESS
15 YEARS AGO
- MY EMPLOYER INDICATED HE WAS GOING TO SET UP A SCHOLARSHIP FUND
AT BOTH OUR LOCAL UNIVERSITIES - HE THEN PROCEEDED INTO BANKRUPTCY
AND
CAUSED GREAT
TURMOIL IN THE LIVES OF THOSE OF US WHO WORKED WITH HIM.BUT I CAN
REMEMBER THINKING...WHAT A GREAT IDEA..
WHEN I SAW
THE MOVIE PAY IT FORWARD - I THOUGHT WHAT A FABULOUS CONCEPT
MY MIND BEGAN
TO CHURN..
HOW COULD I
POSSIBLY CHANGE THE WORLD - EVEN IN A SMALL WAY ?
WHEN THE OPPORTUNITY
AROSE TO PROVIDE A SCHOLARSHIP FUND FOR OTTAWA UNIVERSITY-CIRCLE
K - I TOOK THE INITIATIVE - BUT I WANTED IT TO BE SELF FUNDING.
HOW COULD I
DO IT ?
I COULD WRITE
A BIG CHEQUE (NOT MY FIRST OPTION)
THEN I REMEMBERED
A MATCHING PROGRAM POSSIBILITY - UPON EXPLORATION- I AM HAPPY TO
ANNOUNCE A FUND IS BEING SET UP TO BE KNOWN AS
MAZEROLLE-GOSEWITZ-WOOD
CIRCLE K -
KIWANIS CLUB OF OTTAWA ENDOWMENT FUND
IT IS IN HONOUR
OF OUR PARENTS - WHO GAVE US EVERYTHING AND ASKED NOTHING IN RETURN.
MY ONLY CONDITION
- IS THE RECIPIENT PAY IT FORWARD
HELP SOMEONE
ELSE IN THE FUTURE - OR 3 PEOPLE - OR 5 - OR 10....
ONCE THEY HAVE
THE OPPORTUNITY
BE IT CASH
- TIME AND EFFORT - OR ADVICE
YOU NEVER KNOW
WHEN YOUR ACTIONS CAN CHANGE THE WORLD
MY DREAM -
BECAME A GOAL - BECAME REALITY
IN SUMMATION
THE FOLLOWING
QUOTES AND WORDS OF THOUGHT
'WE MAKE A
LIVING BY WHAT WE GET - BUT WE MAKE A LIFE BY WHAT WE GIVE ' (SIR
WINSTON CHURCHILL)
MY PERSONAL
FAVOURITE - 'GIVING IN ITS PUREST FORM - EXPECTS NOTHING IN RETURN'
IF YOU FIND
IT IN YOUR HEART TO CARE FOR SOMEBODY ELSE, YOU WILL HAVE SUCCEEDED
(MAYA ANGELOU)
DO NOT LET
YOURSELVES BE DISCOURAGED OR EMBITTERED BY THE SMALLNESS OF THE
SUCCESS YOU ARE LIKELY TO ACHIEVE IN TRYING TO MAKE LIFE BETTER.
YOU CERTAINLY
WOULD NOT BE ABLE, IN A SINGLE GENERATION, TO CREATE AN EARTHLY
PARADISE. WHO COULD EXPECT THAT ?
BUT, IF YOU
MAKE LIFE EVER SO LITTLE BETTER, YOU WILL HAVE DONE SPLENDIDLY,
AND
YOUR LIVES
WILL HAVE BEEN WORTHWHILE.(ARNOTLD TOYNBEE)
I LEAVE YOU
WITH AN ASSIGNMENT - OR SHALL I SAY CHALLENGE
FOR THE REST
OF YOUR LIFE.........
DARE TO DREAM
THINK OF SOME
METHOD WHERE YOU CAN HELP TO POSSIBLY CHANGE THE WORLD
EVEN A LITTLE
BIT.FOR THE BETTER
PAY IT FORWARD.......YOU
NEVER KNOW WHERE YOUR ACTIONS MAY LEAD...
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