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Daily Chronicle 2/12/05
By Renee Messacar - Staff Writer
SYCAMORE - Each day, Mary Lou Eubanks watches her dream come
closer to fruition.
The Sycamore resident is spearheading a project to open a home
at 719 Somonauk St. for relatives and friends of Kindred Hospital
patients.
On Sunday, she will show off the not-yet-finished house to the
community that contributed greatly to its creation, she said.
She and other volunteers will lead tours of the Pay It Forward
House from 1-4 p.m. Sunday, with a 2 p.m. tour of Kindred Hospital.
The Edward Street hospital treats people with extensive illnesses
that require the use of ventilators. Some patients stay at the
hospital for months.
Having a sick loved one is difficult, Eubanks said. She had
a sister-in-law in Kindred years ago and felt lucky she didn't
have far to travel to visit her.
Some families of Kindred patients travel hours each way to visit
loved ones. Staying in hotels or commuting becomes too expensive
and difficult, Eubanks said.
She stayed
in a hospitality house herself when one of her daughter's was
ill. She said she couldn't have made it through that difficult
time without the help of strangers. When her father died and
left her some money, she decided to return the favor, or "pay
it forward."
In October,
she proposed to the city's plan commission that she would like
to start a hospitality house where these visitors could stay
for a nominal fee. She called it a "home away
from home."
Since announcing her intentions, she has received support from
throughout the community to get the home ready for its spring
opening.
On Friday, it needed a little additional work before it can
open, such as emergency lighting and fire detectors.
Volunteers will prepare the home today for the open house Sunday.
They will sweep the hardwood floors, vacuum the carpets and dust
the donated furniture, such as an antique dinning room set with
buffet table. The donor said the set had belonged to his grandmother
and he couldn't use it, but he knew she would have liked it going
to such a cause.
Churches and groups have collected items for the house, such
as the Sycamore United Methodist, which filled the kitchen with
glasses, plates, towels and utensils.
The kitchen contains a toaster, microwave, refrigerator and
non-working stove.
"People can fix small meals here," Eubanks
said. Having a non-working stove was part of her agreement
with the city to limit fire hazards.
Upstairs, guests will stay in the three bedrooms and share the
home's two-and-a-half bathrooms.
The rooms weren't furnished as of Friday, but Eubanks intended
to place at least bed frames in them today, she said.
"The tour is to give people an idea of where we are in
the project and what we need," she said. "We wanted
to share the dream with them."
The basement includes a laundry room with a rocking chair and
walls painted the color of churned butter, Eubanks said.
"It's the cheeriest laundry room you'll ever see," she
said.
In the family room, volunteers will set up comfortable furniture
where people can gather to watch television, play games and work
on puzzles. The room contains sliding glass doors that lead to
a large patio and full yard that Eubanks hopes one day will contain
a gazebo and flowers.
"The house isn't finished yet, but we still want to show
it off to the community," she said. She said she is thankful
for the community's support.
She said
she and the volunteers decided on the home's name because "paying
it forward is a good way to live."
Renee Messacar can be reached at rmessacar@pulitzer.net
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